I've blogged about this before, but the subject came up with Mom again
recently, and then I learned about a new book that intrigues me, to say the
least.
Well, it goes like this: down through the years my mom has told me the
story of a sunny day, when she was a child of eight or so, that she and her
friend Winkie were on the front porch playing, and upon looking up they both saw
and described a little man, dressed in red and green and wearing a hat with a
pointed hat. The little man made eye contact with them and then ducked into a
hole in the ground (that part of the city of Chattanooga, TN was quite rural at
that time).
According to my mom, she asked Winkie, "did you see that?" Winkie described
the same sight my mom had seen. (My mom swears, and always has, that she asked
Winkie to describe what she saw before she blurted her assessment.)
No matter how often I have "grilled" Mom on the details, her story has
never wavered. I wrote a post that suggested that perhaps she was so impressed
by a childhood visit to a local tourist attraction, Lookout Mountain's Rock City
perhaps it led to a fantasy. Rock City, besides being a lovely gardens and
natural rock citadel, was a virtual fairyland of its creator, Frieda Carter
(Carter was heavily interested in European folklore and troubled herself
to import Gnome figurines from Germany to enhance Rock City's natural
beauty).
My mother dismissed my theory as preposterous. I'm moved by that. My mother
is not a liar (although I wouldn't rule out being a bit fantasy-prone). But who
am I to tell her she didn't see what she and her friend allegedly saw?
Now I notice the recent publication of Seeing Fairies: From the Lost Archives
of the Fairy Investigation Society, Authentic Reports of Fairies in Modern
Times, by a member of the Fairy Investigation Society, the late Marjorie T.
Johnson.
Johnson's book claims to present accounts of approximately four hundred
fairy sightings from people all over the world, allegedly "the biggest single
collection of fairy experiences ever amassed." A blurb at Amazon.com
states:
THIS IS NOT A CHILDREN'S BOOK. Its accounts of fairy
experiences, mostly from the twentieth century, have come from business men and
women, housewives, journalists, clergymen, bus drivers, anglers, gypsies, school
teachers, university professors, soldiers, artists, authors, poets, musicians,
sculptors, actresses, and many others who have seen fairies of various types in
houses, churches, and sheds; in gardens, fields, woods, country lanes, and
public parks; on moors, hills, and mountains; and even on sewing machines,
typewriters, and kitchen stoves.
Yes, and I've known it for some time, there really are people who claim to
have seen fairies. And yes, I'm one of those who has actually read Sir Arthur
Conan Doyle's embarrassing The Coming Of The Fairies. Without question
the eyes can play tricks on us, and those very inclined to believe can delude
themselves. But I have to tell you, my mom sounds really convincing....
I too am not one to say what is or isn't impossible. But I do think it can happen with long ago events that we end up remembering the memory rather than the event, and the memory can change. It probably depends on if we have ever written the memory down, how soon afterwards, and whether anyone else remembered it also.
ReplyDeleteSo true. False memories do occur. I stumbled upon a way to check my memory. I collect old television shows on DVD. I've assembled a number of these and old movies that I remember from my childhood. I always test certain scenes from my memory, sometimes going back over four decades. Most of the time those memories proved very accurate. A few times my memories were mostly accurate, but not exactly crisp. And I admit there a few where I almost totally blew it. Obviously this mainly works when my memory made a strong impression. Mom's memory of her little man obviously made a strong impression on her.
DeleteI think your memory is better than mine. There are some things I remember well, but so many songs, films, places, etc that I remember and get back to them and find I remembered wrongly - not totally, but a little and noticeably.
DeleteI remember that post and I shared my story of seeing a man in armour at the end of my bunk bed. My story hasn't changed either. :-)
ReplyDeleteI remember your telling me about that. So intrigued was was I that I went back in search of that old post in order to reread your comment. So what do you make of your "tin man"? You ought to blog about that one. Or have you already and I missed it?
DeleteSpeaking of memory from your above conversation, I can't remember if I ever blogged about it. I've always thought that my best blogging material would be found in my comments in other people's blogs. LOL!
DeleteA dream? The Wizard of Oz? In my Christian years I would have liked to have thought it was a warrior of God protecting me but the sense in this "tin man" was not of protection or love. I did not sense benevolence. It wouldn't let me out of the bed to go pee! Surely God's beings would understand that and let me out. :-)
Did I ever tell you I have a binder of dreams? Always thought I'd use them to write one day but I think I'm out of steam. They very much show my journey in life. Rarely do I recall my dreams anymore and for the most part when I do I still find meaning in them but I don't work at it. I just wake up and think, 'well that fits.' :-)